Why is the word “love” is acknowledged as a crime in our so-called society?

What is love for me?

But here, in this article, my focus will be on how elders’ should react when their children express their feelings to them and what advancements have come in this word ‘love.’

Modernization

Disagreements

This single word also led to many vast disagreements between relations which lasts for such a long time. But an important word comes here “disagreements”- these are only caused when we lack in understanding the person in front of us. The 3 alarming emotions that suddenly attacks a person when he/she heard a piece of news that their child is in love with someone are ego, anger and stubbornness.

Why parents oppose their children?

Give confidence

“Is there anyone in your life or do you like someone?” This question shows them that their choices and decisions matter to the elders. Nowadays, youngsters’ and their opinions’ changed from the past. Modern culture is widespread and being in that culture is a thing of admiration for youngsters. For example, your child tells you that he loves someone and by chance, you know the person he loves. So, if there is nothing wrong with that person, then you should give importance to your child’s choice and consider the matter. If not, then have a logical, smooth and clear discussion by maintaining a peaceful environment.

How to cope with this situation calmly?

Understand

The rebellious behaviour; this happens when you act abnormally like slapping your child. In return, what happens? They rebels. They go against you. They disrespect you.

It’s a human reaction which happens when you act in a manner that deviates from what is normal.

Ignorance

Education is given to end up the word ‘ignorance.’ The reaction which we present in a tray to our children when they express their feelings in front of us is a sign of deep ignorance.

In this case, the difference between the educated and uneducated is determined by their reaction. The reaction at that time defines how wise you are.

Think

Clothe yourself with wise strength, dignity and righteous acceptance.

In the end, we are all just stories. Write yours wisely that actually represents you.

Remember, the greatest successes come from having the freedom to fail.

Mark Zuckerberg

Don’t be afraid of losing. Losing is a small path in a road which leads you to your destination. Be brave. Own your mistakes, your flaws and then, the universe will guide you.

Change the mind-setting game!

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